then can you be sure that you arent mistaking a sense of fulfillment over taking care of something properly for [ he is NOT using the l word— ] something else.
Shut up, I'm just a positive person. How about you tell me yours instead? And I'm talking personal goals, not professional ones. None of this “I'll be dead by 30” bullshit, either.
to get so well known for being the fucking best at something that my continued existence gives people with type a personalities depression over how theyll never have that
[ why is he the second person so mention succession to him smh ]
I like to think they got it so right the first time they knew a second one would only be subpar. Haha. Nah, I never asked why they didn't have another kid, but I think they really just straight up don't care that much. It's like having a kid was a checkmark on their list of things to do, they did it, so they moved on.
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i have you under my microscope and i wont stop hitting the different magnifying options until i understand wtf i am looking at
have you ever owned a pet
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But yeah, I've owned many pets.
If a zoo counts, I've owned even more.
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.........
Well.
Okay.
Not... For everything......
[ he took care of loving them but the rest was not his problem. ]
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[ say it (because he doesn't get it). ]
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maybe its not a crush
maybe you just feel good about taking care of something
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but maybe it does mean youd be a [ SHUDDERS ] good parent or something
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It's not like I don't think about the future, but thinking about being a parent is a little...
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but youre making me look like a damn amateur
why the hell not, tell me what are your future dreams then
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How about you tell me yours instead?
And I'm talking personal goals, not professional ones.
None of this “I'll be dead by 30” bullshit, either.
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ok your turn
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just one?
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Yeah, just one.
You don't want kids, and the truth is I don't, either.
I'd just spoil that kid rotten and give it everything it wants.
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if i had a kid id never tell it no or that it did wrong or that it cant do whatever it wants
[ this would be so much more heartwarming if he could use something other than 'it'? but. ]
probably for the best then that both of us refrain
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Yeah.
The truth is I don't want kids.
I don't want to give my parents the satisfaction.
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they probably shouldve had more kids themselves if they were so worried about it
or are they worried about like
a succession sort of situation lmfao
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I like to think they got it so right the first time they knew a second one would only be subpar.
Haha.
Nah, I never asked why they didn't have another kid, but I think they really just straight up don't care that much.
It's like having a kid was a checkmark on their list of things to do, they did it, so they moved on.
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and did they take care of you personally?
or was that left to others
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